On the other hand, the therapist, which avoids any discussion of the details and says, generalizations may not feel comfortably about sexual abuse. You need someone who can answer questions you have regarding your experiences and feelings. There are a lot of people in your life who do not feel comfortable when it comes to about sexual abuse – with whom you can talk for free. Your therapist should not be one of them. Another type of therapist, to be avoided – is the one that has a mission. It may be the therapist who wants to include you in a group that is not suitable for you or for which you are not ready to join. (For example, when I led a group of men / boys, survivors of sexual abuse, I often heard the men talking about previous experiences when they were the only men in the group of survivors, which was dominated by women.) Also be wary of dogmatic religious counselor or one who insists on human forgiveness, abuse you, in order to truly heal. Be careful with this, who wants to get you started a confrontation with someone who you zluopotrebil, before you want it or ready for it.

Confrontation – this is serious business that requires careful preparation and safety. So, it's certain types of therapists, which should be avoided. How did you find the one you think, will be good for you? If you have a support group available (such as, for survivors of sexual relationship), you may ask, who has a therapist who can recommend.