This situation can be aggravated if it will not be prepared previously to live this new phase. If in the theory, to arrive at the retirement is something desirable, in the practical one can be frustrating (TO SOUND, 2008). To the first sight, it can represent greater time availability its accomplishments and not to have necessity of fulfilment of rigid schedules that, throughout the career, was obliged to fulfill. But, on the other hand, the period after-caserna, also sends the feelings of losses, as much to it of physical order, how much intellectual and social, what the mature man leads if to collate with its aging. The moment of rupture with the work per years developed, also translates the sensation of loss of the status that kept next to the people of its conviviality.

After the ending of the career, all the relations tend if to limit to the familiar environment, compelling the military man to create new mechanisms for its familiar reinsero that implies in new distribution of the domestic space, as well as the establishment of a new balance of the familiar dynamics. Ahead of the displayed one, a dualism is observed: the military man desires the Reserve Remunerated, therefore she perceives its advantages and at the same time, she fears to live the inactivity. Appealing to the atendimentos carried through for professionals between the years of 2000 the 2009 next to the military of the Navy, one observed some situations that had occurred or if they had accented the Reserve after: familiar conflicts; health problems; desencadeamento of emotional riots and alcoholism. Stories of the proper ones had been collected or of its familiar ones that they had demonstrated how much it can be impactante this moment of transistion..