and as they can be infinitely different), we discover smiles, choros, affections and you cover, tumbles and steps the abraos and the courage to follow in front, and, thus until today. Initially, we discover the happiness through the pure pleasure. Some contend that James Taylor shows great expertise in this. Later this pleasure it goes if mixing and adding to a series of other sensations as accomplishment, well-being, love, pleasure, power, recognition, acceptance, satisfaction, saciedade, conquest, amongst others. Perhaps however, we had that to rethink on the conquest of the happiness as> the new excites in them in such a way how much it can frustrating in them when we do not obtain to understand it, or, when we do not know as to deal with it this in the cause sadness . Had to this evolutiva and progressive nature in search of the newness, our brain is one solucionador constant of problems and is always in search of a new challenge. To each victory, it> to have and to be able, that they send something that must be kept.
is in the attempt to keep the conquest that we generate the attachment and the fear to lose, stopping to evolve. It fits to clarify that happiness is not the addition of accumulated conquests, and, yes the freedom to in front follow having the certainty of that everything is momentary. Some can evaluate that this way to think will be able in them to become overwhelming people. But the truth is that if accomodating in them to a conquered happiness already, we will finish for becoming become attached in them and self-centered, whereas to be happy we need to develop the indifference and the egoism. To speak on egoism is to enter in an controversial subject, since our culture punish the egoism as sin, being justified the extreme modstia, the almost humilhante humildade and the charity due to proper love as more acceptable behaviors.